Todays generation more courageous to face death than life???

Am a third year student doing a good course from  a reputed college…for the past few weeks of my life  here all that me and  my friends get to hear is  something very much in common..my college being a platform where students  all over from the country and different countries come to share this learning platform..

The topic is something  that I have already written about…the suicide in the younger generation,………

   Is it that todays  generation of kids have too many problems in life….or they have just forgotten the fact how to face there life(please note that its not facing the problems in life but facing life itself)..

Today’s generation life has become so competitive that all that we want is the best…parents for their kids and kids for themselves..it all starts with iit jee ,aieee,aipmt..etc   etc coaching and ya till you enter that point all that really matters in life is getting over there..once u get in you have to stay up to your and every one elses expectation by being a 9 pointer..and  ya  if don make it up to those colleges you can never forget how hard you worked but you could never make it..though you would want to carry on but some people will never allow u forget that…another side there are kids who come through reservation and the amount of struggle these people undergo can only be felt by them and there fellow friends…

One side pressure of acads eating your head up..the other side the girl friend boy friend issue ..i don’t how mature we are in multitasking but irrespective of how old/young you are you have to have a boy friend or a gal friend..prestige issue u know… cant help it..off all this people might have big problems in college life with friends and etc etc…these might be the major problems(so called problems to most of the ppl) who so easily give up living life..

1 week ..and 3 siuicide stories  …one girl because she was a topper through out school and in college in a particular sem she couldn’t hit an 8 pointer..2.a girl who gave up the courage to live because few of friends made fun of her complexion and shape…3.a final year guy ..a very close friend of my very close friend..reason-??unknown…

How strange is that  al our parents life literally just goes into raisin us..most of them just plan and plan  and PLAN jus for the sake the kids have a better life…but is that the parents today have forgotten to teach the present generation not to accept defeat so easily or the definition of defeat itself is not understood by us….or is it our generation that wants every thing good so that it just doesn’t accept anything below it…the question is very true but the answer..?????i don have..i don’t know whats  the solution to it…..                                            

   I dint know what to answer when my friends mom asked   her.. …   ”what do u kids think you are doing .. thinking you can handle everything on your own..not telling or sharing any of your problems with anyone,,”….the parents who lost  there son don’t have any answer…the mother who broke the door open and saw her son hanging will never  forgive herself..what  if she really would have stopped it..what  if they made a mistake..again  the questions  are many but all unanswered..this  moment she will never forget…the burden will remain forever..

I hope its high time we all start behaving a little more maturely …..with a little more courage to face life..a chance to see what real suffering like ..a chance to see people living happily with  that..a chance to feel your life is worth living..and feel  the worth of living it…and to feel it can be ahppy and easy too…all that we really need to know is..

When you die you don’t die alone………..