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Hello…………….
Was not a great day today..but some good lessons…
NOTE:DON’T READ THE SECOND PARA IF YOU DON’T LIKE IN PETS….CONTINUE FROM THE THIRD DIRECTLY..
I joined a small intern for a month here….the day din go that well…was jus going through some older design files…after that got something to cad draft….dad came 2 pick me up….
Got a news that one of his friend has passed away ..has 2 small kids….i don’t know I am a pretty strong person..din know him at al..so did not affect me much…got back home…my bro told me..our pet hen had passed away….i don’t know how many of it would even want to read it..but then it was jus like a kid to my mom..it was a hen but then it used to listen when we used to talk to her….my bro bought it home for 3 rs from the road side…both of us made it sleep it a small carton box covered it with clothes…like a baby..we took care of it…it was like a part of our family…today after 3 yrs it died …my mum cried the whole day..even I feel bad,..now I really understand how much of love even goes into raisin these pets…these are not even considered as pets…jus like a kid….and we al miss it…..love you bobbo(that was its name..)
GOT BACK HOME…this is a story ..a real story of two moms…a poor family….a hard working family….its about a family whom I observe really carefully…this family has 5 characters the mother ,the father and three sons and a grandmother(the second mothers story)…
1st about the mother…has three young sons..husband earns 3000rs per months…100rs per day…20rs for each person…approximately 6 rs for each meal..the 1st son is pretty good looking and smart…he finished his college..BA degree I guess…the second one stopped with 12th..the third one got finished ug..and I guess doesn’t have sufficient money to study further…..the fees for the 1st sun was paid by a Christian institution because he chose to be a father(the church father)..i don’t know what to say..it might be by choice..or because of the condition….second one..has a call taxi and earns his money through that..third one still studying…
How does this mother gets money..she raises cattle’s..sells milk ..curd everyday afternoon in the hot sky..walks for miles…collets 5 rs and 10 or 20 rs everyday…and yah some amount is paid by the grandmother…this is how these kids and their life goes on….this mother is the REALL REASON why and how this family runs..the food..the fees …everything..i think they oly two meals a day..trust me I don’t want to talk about what they eat those two meals….this female lives her life in depression..that she does everything for everyone…but no one understands her...not even her mother…her mother keeps screaming at her for not cleaning up the cowdung on time..she is not educated ..she doesn’t understand…but ya in return the mother screams a lot at the granma..
The story of the grandma….a rich childhood and the rest of the life..same craze about the male child..gave al her property to him..and she was literally kicked out of the house…I think she is 65 or 70..the police came forced that family to keep her..they kept her without choice…she lived like an untouchable without food and respect there,,she had no option left but to come back to her daughters house..i think she has 8 kids..and none of them ready to keep her…but then the mother character was kind enough to keep her at home…there was some amount of money left around 35000..that she gave to her daughters family..she even went all by herself walking and brought them a present for there house warming..thinking she wont be alive till the day they have real house to live…
These 2 ppl the mother and the grandma often have arguments..one such was today..and the result that poor old lady is again kicked out..she dint eat anything from morning….for drinking water she has been begging people..she has been sitting in the dark outside little far from their house…and yah now she is sleeping on the road…and she is crying,..i called her many times she refuses to come to my place…its so bad that those grandchildren seem so okay with it ..one stands outside on the bike with the phone..the other is inside…what ever it is..did our parents throw us out when we did a mistake in our childhood…
Ya they would have screamed at us..but we all know our sides also..our mistakes….if not for them we wouldn’t have been whatever we are today..these are something that every single one of us know..but still old aged people are treated like shit..i feel so terrible when that lady walks with a blanket and nothing else in hand….and sleeps on the road….for her…SHE GAVE LIFE TO EIGHT WONDERFULL KIDS…THOSE KIDS THOUGH NOT VERY RICH THEY DO HAVE A FAMILY…WATEVER SHE HAD…SHE GAVE IT UP…SHE HAS NO MONEY..EXACTLY 200RS LEFT OF AL SHE HAD IN HER LIFE…THAT OLD WOMAN…JUST NEEDS SOMETHING WHICH IS VERY AVAILABLE..LOVE …UNDERSTANDING…ADJUSTMENT..TOLRANCE…SHE IS OLD..ITS HER SECOND CHILDHOOD…ITS PAINFULL TO WATCH THE OLD PEOPLE THIS WAY…let me make a wish of these grown parents understanding there really grown up kids..(their own parents)..
PS:I had a reader sayin that I think too much for my age…it’s a request that..everyone somewhere knows al this…even u ..but one day we might do things which might hurt people..writin such stuff doesn’t make me any less me in my life..i have another side…the very side that everyone has..this is just an effort to waken your nicer and lovlier side…if u think its not your type..please don’t read it…I would be happy if someone somewhere thinks once before talkin a wrong step…
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